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This psychology book with you to learn how to grow up is for introverts. “Sometimes, when depression hits, all I really want is to be alone.” Do you really think that depression or anxiety disorder is a disease only for the weak who always lack love? And you struggle not knowing what to do other than giving advice and encouragement at your own discretion, but not knowing that sometimes you just need to be quiet, be around, understand… That's enough.
“Are You A Scared Child Behind an Adult Shell?” These are stories that don't belong to anyone, so that you can understand how fraught with being an adult is a traumatic journey and how depression is an exhausting battle.
SUMMARY:
1 Everyone lives much better than me
There's always someone better than you. Then someone else is doing worse than you. What a vicious circle of superfluous competition. And every now and then, an old acquaintance will post it on Facebook. But the good news is that you have the power to create your own definition of progress and success. It could be about going to the doctor yourself, or persuading yourself not to go online to look up other people's information. Taking a step forward is fine, taking a step back won't kill anyone, being able to stay on the ground is great - maybe even a big step forward. No matter what your mother's friends say about her son, you're still alive and well. Because you are who you are, and there really is no greater success than that.
2 Responsibility is the most hated thing
Mistakes are an inevitable part of adult life, although we often take it for granted that being an adult is something other people are suddenly good at, something no one can be ignorant of. The reality is this: We make mistakes, which in turn will teach us to avoid making the same mistakes in the future. Perhaps being better at being an adult means knowing how to check your account statement, or listening to the entire dialing instructions before slyly telling a stranger about your groin problem. Everyone has to go through these things. That's normal. You are fine. You will just do it.
3 Affection: Courier
No matter how comfortable you are with your feelings, expressing them properly is another matter entirely. Sooner or later, you have to face them too. The more you repress them, the more you will panic. Acknowledging feelings is certainly not easy, but it is essential. Emotions will help you realize things aren't right, or give you confidence that you're on the right track. The sooner you come to terms with your feelings, the quicker you and them will feel at ease.
4 Asking for help and other scary conversations
Asking others for help is one of the hardest things to do in life. It requires us to show more fragility and weakness than we would like others to see in us. Asking for help is about getting the other person to step into his or her own right and giving them a fuller view of your mess. But mostly it's still because it's so annoying and not fun at all.
My review and comments about the book:
There will be times when you feel extremely lonely when no one understands you, or you feel that you do not deserve to be loved. But that's okay, because you're sure to find sympathy in this book.
It won't take long to read this book, but the knowledge gained won't let you down. The form, presentation, pictures and content are all great. I hope each of us can understand that life is not always perfect but we are still here, getting better every day and just being ourselves.
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Grammar and spelling errors:
Line 1, column 276, Rule ID: AFFORD_VBG[2]
Message: This verb is used with infinitive: 'to know'.
Suggestion: to know
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Message: Possible spelling mistake found
Suggestion: That's
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Suggestion: don't
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Message: Use simply 'now and then'.
Suggestion: now and then
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Transition Words or Phrases used:
but, if, look, may, really, so, still, then, well, as to
Attributes: Values AverageValues Percentages(Values/AverageValues)% => Comments
Performance on Part of Speech:
To be verbs : 42.0 7.0 600% => Less to be verbs wanted.
Auxiliary verbs: 13.0 1.00243902439 1297% => Less auxiliary verb wanted.
Conjunction : 30.0 6.8 441% => Less conjunction wanted
Relative clauses : 16.0 3.15609756098 507% => Less relative clauses wanted (maybe 'which' is over used).
Pronoun: 82.0 5.60731707317 1462% => Less pronouns wanted
Preposition: 62.0 33.7804878049 184% => OK
Nominalization: 9.0 3.97073170732 227% => Less nominalizations (nouns with a suffix like: tion ment ence ance) wanted.
Performance on vocabulary words:
No of characters: 2921.0 965.302439024 303% => Less number of characters wanted.
No of words: 629.0 196.424390244 320% => Less content wanted.
Chars per words: 4.64387917329 4.92477711251 94% => OK
Fourth root words length: 5.00798087137 3.73543355544 134% => OK
Word Length SD: 2.43384684835 2.65546596893 92% => OK
Unique words: 320.0 106.607317073 300% => Less unique words wanted.
Unique words percentage: 0.508744038156 0.547539520022 93% => More unique words wanted or less content wanted.
syllable_count: 872.1 283.868780488 307% => syllable counts are too long.
avg_syllables_per_word: 1.4 1.45097560976 96% => OK
A sentence (or a clause, phrase) starts by:
Pronoun: 9.0 1.53170731707 588% => Less pronouns wanted as sentence beginning.
Article: 7.0 4.33902439024 161% => OK
Subordination: 5.0 1.07073170732 467% => Less adverbial clause wanted.
Conjunction: 13.0 0.482926829268 2692% => Less conjunction wanted as sentence beginning.
Preposition: 0.0 3.36585365854 0% => More preposition wanted as sentence beginning.
Performance on sentences:
How many sentences: 34.0 8.94146341463 380% => Too many sentences.
Sentence length: 18.0 22.4926829268 80% => The Avg. Sentence Length is relatively short.
Sentence length SD: 57.5614383392 43.030603864 134% => OK
Chars per sentence: 85.9117647059 112.824112599 76% => OK
Words per sentence: 18.5 22.9334400587 81% => OK
Discourse Markers: 1.64705882353 5.23603664747 31% => More transition words/phrases wanted.
Paragraphs: 13.0 3.83414634146 339% => Less paragraphs wanted.
Language errors: 12.0 1.69756097561 707% => Less language errors wanted.
Sentences with positive sentiment : 17.0 3.70975609756 458% => Less positive sentences wanted.
Sentences with negative sentiment : 11.0 1.13902439024 966% => Less negative sentences wanted.
Sentences with neutral sentiment: 7.0 4.09268292683 171% => OK
What are sentences with positive/Negative/neutral sentiment?
Coherence and Cohesion:
Essay topic to essay body coherence: 0.0555512467883 0.215688989381 26% => OK
Sentence topic coherence: 0.0153191312274 0.103423049105 15% => OK
Sentence topic coherence SD: 0.0429887530486 0.0843802449381 51% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence: 0.0518472366307 0.15604864568 33% => OK
Paragraph topic coherence SD: 0.132289294873 0.0819641961636 161% => OK
Essay readability:
automated_readability_index: 9.7 13.2329268293 73% => Automated_readability_index is low.
flesch_reading_ease: 70.13 61.2550243902 114% => OK
smog_index: 3.1 6.51609756098 48% => Smog_index is low.
flesch_kincaid_grade: 7.9 10.3012195122 77% => OK
coleman_liau_index: 9.63 11.4140731707 84% => OK
dale_chall_readability_score: 7.37 8.06136585366 91% => OK
difficult_words: 113.0 40.7170731707 278% => Less difficult words wanted.
linsear_write_formula: 13.5 11.4329268293 118% => OK
gunning_fog: 9.2 10.9970731707 84% => OK
text_standard: 10.0 11.0658536585 90% => OK
What are above readability scores?
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Maximum four paragraphs wanted.
It is not exactly right on the topic in the view of e-grader. Maybe there is a wrong essay topic.
Rates: 11.2359550562 out of 100
Scores by essay e-grader: 1.0 Out of 9
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