Some people show their emotions while other people work hard to keep their emotions from showing What are the advantages of each type of behavior Which do you try to do

We human beings by nature, have various types of emotions toward different issues and feelings are inseparable parts of our life. Regarding emotions and feelings, some are of the opinion that it’s better to show them easily and conversely some people might think that sometimes trying to keep them from others has good advantages. I surmise that whether we show our feeling or not depend on some factors such as our personality type, our habits, our upbringing and the like. Each type of behavior has its own merits and demerits.

Showing our emotions and feelings has some advantages. When we show our emotions easily we give other people a chance to know about our feelings and reactions toward issues. For instance, if my friend tells a lie to me, and I show her that I’m unhappy and uneasy about her action, through my behavior, she comes to realize that she has make something which made me upset and she might try not to do it again. Another merit of showing emotion is that it let you liberate yourself form negative feelings when you’re involved with negative emotions and thoughts. It doesn't let you accumulate all of untold and not shown emotions.

Although expressing emotions has some advantages, also there are some benefits in trying to hide them. I assume that one of these benefits is that in some cases you don’t let people to realize what your weaknesses are. I believe that always there are some people around us who are looking for opportunities to learn about our weaknesses and hurt us by them. Moreover, by keeping our emotions from feeling we don’t let people judge us in many cases. For example, when we have a conflict with one of our friends or family members, if we don’t show other people that we’re hurt by that person, other people don’t get a chance to judge both of us and our relationship and behaviors toward each other.

As for me, fortunately or unfortunately I’m an introvert; I like to keep to myself. Usually I don’t like to show my feelings or talk about my emotions to other. However sometimes it’s really hard and annoying that I have to keep all the things and emotions inside myself.

To wrap up, I contend that showing or hiding emotions, each has some pros and cons and in different situation and circumstances you should use various behaviors.